恋愛

相手を見極めよ

aite o mikiwameyo / あいてをみきわめよSee the other person clearly

Meaning

Take a careful look at the person you love. When feelings run ahead, it is hard to see someone clearly, so judge by actions rather than words.

What to do today

Recall something the other person did, rather than said, that stayed with you.

A word from the capybara

Look closely, and the true face is there beneath the fur.