争事

控えよ

hikaeyo / ひかえよHold back

Meaning

Hold back from disputes. This is not the time for open conflict, so even if you have something to say, the phrase asks you to choose your moment and keep it to yourself for now.

What to do today

When you feel like snapping back, write it in a note before saying anything.

A word from the capybara

Whatever needs saying can be swallowed along with some grass for now.