縁談

人に頼め

hito ni tanome / ひとにたのめAsk someone to help

Meaning

Do not handle the match between the two of you alone; ask someone to stand in between. Seeing things through a trusted person's eyes reveals what the two of you might miss.

What to do today

Think of one person who could give you advice and send them an update.

A word from the capybara

With a go-between, the talks move along softly.