縁談

心定めよ

kokoro sadameyo / こころさだめよMake up your mind

Also written as: 心を定めよ

Meaning

In the matter of marriage, settle your own heart. Going ahead while still wavering leads to doubts later, so the phrase asks you to be clear first about what matters to you.

What to do today

Write down one thing you hope for from the other person and one thing you can offer.

A word from the capybara

Once the heart is settled, sleep comes more easily too.